Monday, August 27, 2007

Shared experience

This whole approach is based on the personal experience of spirituality, not on theology or some external authority. Each individual validates his or her own truth. It may seem, therefore, that respect for the Human Spirit is an individualistic, self-centered quest. For most people, that conclusion would be wrong. Most of us can cultivate our personal spirituality only as part of a supportive community. Most of us lack the motivation and self-discipline to undertake this journey alone.

But a special kind of community is required—one that shares the quest for spirituality. You are most likely to be able to cultivate spiritual growth in a group organized for that purpose. In short, in some sort of religious community.

This raises two potential concerns.

First, such groups aren’t usually self-organizing and self-sustaining. At least at the outset, they will probably require the sponsorship and resources of organized religion—no other organization is likely to take on this responsibility. The potential concern is that the sponsoring organization might have an overt or hidden agenda, to promote its own theology or authority. If so, the new community is likely to fail. But if there is a collaborative relationship, where the new community determines its needs and direction, and if the sponsor is a mentor who provides facilities and information and resources as requested—then the new community will have an opportunity to thrive.

The second potential concern arises with any organization, which can become increasingly rigid and self-promoting as it ages. There are no guarantees, but this problem seems more likely to develop in a community organized around dogma or a sense of superior insight, and less likely in a community organized around respect for the equal gift of the Human Spirit received by all.

Despite these concerns, a community organized around the idea of the individual Human Spirit seems to offer multiple benefits:

• Sharing: Each person brings a different set of experiences and insights, so each member benefits from a broader view.

• Challenge: Regular exchange with others encourages more systematic preparation, and the exchanges themselves raise questions individuals may never have considered on their own.

• Resources: A group can call upon speakers and programs unavailable to individuals.

• Emotional support: Most people benefit from a comfortable environment where they can freely share joys and concerns, and receive encouragement. A responsive grin beats an Internet smiley-face any day, and a warm hug can never be equaled equaled by typed words.

• Celebration: It is easy to start taking blessings for granted, but a time of shared celebration can focus our attention on the positive.

• Power: When respect for the gift of the Human Spirit in others compels us to action, the group can accomplish things an individual never could.